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    Love really Sux!!!!!!!

    Well after 5 weeks of pure H#$% and being the human yo-yo with my emotions she finally says she quits. 10 years of being together thrown down the tubes. But at the same time says she loves me with all of her heart, Yeah right!!!!! Looks like life is really going to suck for quite awhile now.

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    If it makes you feel any better... there is always someone else that will come along.

    Sorry about the break up
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    Not that it helps, but it can always be worse.


    ..times like these I offer a simple slogan;

    "BEER. It's what's for dinner."

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    Everything happens for a reason!!!
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    Unhappy been there ,done that

    time is youre best freind now,it makes evertything better.keep youre head up,and dont play those games,(i love you but i cant be with you ),move forward,be positive,its her loss.

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    Did it just start to go bad 5 weeks ago, or has this been coming on for longer?

    Usually when something like this occurs, something drastic has happened in either her life or yours. Can you pinpoint a possible precipitating factor?

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    Remember there are always other fish in the tank....err sea.

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    I keep trying to tell myself it's her loss but I am not so sure, it is also my stepson's, his real father hasn't seen him since he was 1. I have been daddy for all this time, last week he told me he wishes mom and I would hurry up and fix this so he could come home.

    We have had our ups and downs like any marriage but not enough that I would have even considered just moving out and leaving her a note like I got.

    I am afraid I forgot how to fish, things have changed since I last went.

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    it is HER loss!

    she is choosing to leave,so ,regardless of what she says ,she doesnt love you.so what are you losing,not much,someone who doesnt love you.
    what is she losing?sounds like you care.shes losing that.


    p.s. the fish in the ocean are the same species,so care should be the same

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    Hang in there

    I went through it too a few years ago. It does get better.
    They aren't spoiled - all kids smell that way

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    Sorry to hear about that.. But it definately does get better and there's always someone else out there for you..
    90g SPS tank 90x hour turnover-

    SELLING IT ALL AND GETTING OUT OF THE HOBBY FOR AWHILE...

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    Petpoor,

    You've got it backwards, love is great. It's the lack of love that 'sux'. Give yourself some time to grieve. And when you're ready, move on. (been there, done that)

    Good luck.


    -Todd

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    Thats a crap line, be bitter youv'e earned the right. Remember though that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

    MROK12


 

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