Love really Sux!!!!!!!

petpoor · 10-19-2001, 10:37 PM

Well after 5 weeks of pure H#$% and being the human yo-yo with my emotions she finally says she quits. 10 years of being together thrown down the tubes. But at the same time says she loves me with all of her heart, Yeah right!!!!! Looks like life is really going to suck for quite awhile now.

icemark · 10-19-2001, 10:41 PM

If it makes you feel any better... there is always someone else that will come along.

Sorry about the break up

eses · 10-19-2001, 10:57 PM

Not that it helps, but it can always be worse.

..times like these I offer a simple slogan;

"BEER. It's what's for dinner."

**drlowz** · 10-20-2001, 11:31 AM

Everything happens for a reason!!!

organicreefer · 10-20-2001, 12:21 PM

time is youre best freind now,it makes evertything better.keep youre head up,and dont play those games,(i love you but i cant be with you

),move forward,be positive,its her loss.

Reinhold · 10-20-2001, 03:28 PM

Did it just start to go bad 5 weeks ago, or has this been coming on for longer?

Usually when something like this occurs, something drastic has happened in either her life or yours. Can you pinpoint a possible precipitating factor?

CaptainK · 10-20-2001, 06:07 PM

Remember there are always other fish in the tank....err sea.

-CaptK

petpoor · 10-20-2001, 07:59 PM

I keep trying to tell myself it's her loss but I am not so sure, it is also my stepson's, his real father hasn't seen him since he was 1. I have been daddy for all this time, last week he told me he wishes mom and I would hurry up and fix this so he could come home.

We have had our ups and downs like any marriage but not enough that I would have even considered just moving out and leaving her a note like I got.

I am afraid I forgot how to fish, things have changed since I last went.

Tom

organicreefer · 10-21-2001, 11:43 AM

she is choosing to leave,so ,regardless of what she says ,she doesnt love you.so what are you losing,not much,someone who doesnt love you.
what is she losing?sounds like you care.shes losing that.

p.s. the fish in the ocean are the same species,so care should be the same

addicted2fish · 10-22-2001, 09:38 AM

I went through it too a few years ago. It does get better.

Bamm Bamm · 10-22-2001, 11:35 AM

Sorry to hear about that.. But it definately does get better and there's always someone else out there for you..

Rin · 10-24-2001, 10:28 PM

Petpoor,

You've got it backwards, love is great. It's the lack of love that 'sux'. Give yourself some time to grieve. And when you're ready, move on. (been there, done that)

Good luck.

-Todd

mrok12 · 10-28-2001, 11:14 AM

Thats a crap line, be bitter youv'e earned the right. Remember though that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

MROK12

10-19-2001, 10:37 PM	#1
petpoor Citizen Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: AR Posts: 176	Love really Sux!!!!!!! Well after 5 weeks of pure H#$% and being the human yo-yo with my emotions she finally says she quits. 10 years of being together thrown down the tubes. But at the same time says she loves me with all of her heart, Yeah right!!!!! Looks like life is really going to suck for quite awhile now. __________________ Toms Reef

10-19-2001, 10:41 PM	#2
icemark Governor Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Rohnert Park, CA, USA Posts: 1,102	If it makes you feel any better... there is always someone else that will come along. Sorry about the break up __________________ Play well Mark www.mazdamark.com

10-20-2001, 11:31 AM	#4
drlowz Moderator Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Bardstown, Ky. Posts: 481	Everything happens for a reason!!! __________________ Are you interested in lowriders or cars in general? UnitedRidaZ.org your automotive forums.

10-20-2001, 12:21 PM	#5
organicreefer Governor Join Date: May 2001 Location: Northern CA Posts: 2,171	been there ,done that time is youre best freind now,it makes evertything better.keep youre head up,and dont play those games,(i love you but i cant be with you ),move forward,be positive,its her loss.

10-20-2001, 07:59 PM	#8
petpoor Citizen Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: AR Posts: 176	I keep trying to tell myself it's her loss but I am not so sure, it is also my stepson's, his real father hasn't seen him since he was 1. I have been daddy for all this time, last week he told me he wishes mom and I would hurry up and fix this so he could come home. We have had our ups and downs like any marriage but not enough that I would have even considered just moving out and leaving her a note like I got. I am afraid I forgot how to fish, things have changed since I last went. Tom __________________ Toms Reef

10-19-2001, 10:57 PM	#3
eses Council Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Seattle Posts: 270	Not that it helps, but it can always be worse. ..times like these I offer a simple slogan; "BEER. It's what's for dinner."

10-20-2001, 03:28 PM	#6
Reinhold Mayor Join Date: May 2001 Location: USA Posts: 941	Did it just start to go bad 5 weeks ago, or has this been coming on for longer? Usually when something like this occurs, something drastic has happened in either her life or yours. Can you pinpoint a possible precipitating factor?

10-20-2001, 06:07 PM	#7
CaptainK Mayor Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: MA. Posts: 534	Remember there are always other fish in the tank....err sea. -CaptK

10-21-2001, 11:43 AM	#9
organicreefer Governor Join Date: May 2001 Location: Northern CA Posts: 2,171	it is HER loss! she is choosing to leave,so ,regardless of what she says ,she doesnt love you.so what are you losing,not much,someone who doesnt love you. what is she losing?sounds like you care.shes losing that. p.s. the fish in the ocean are the same species,so care should be the same

10-22-2001, 09:38 AM	#10
addicted2fish Citizen Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: St. Pete, Florida, USA Posts: 107	Hang in there I went through it too a few years ago. It does get better. __________________ They aren't spoiled - all kids smell that way

10-22-2001, 11:35 AM	#11
Bamm Bamm Governor Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Chico, NOR CAL Posts: 2,215	Sorry to hear about that.. But it definately does get better and there's always someone else out there for you.. __________________ 90g SPS tank 90x hour turnover- SELLING IT ALL AND GETTING OUT OF THE HOBBY FOR AWHILE...

10-24-2001, 10:28 PM	#12
Rin Mayor Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: Leesburg, GA Posts: 774	Petpoor, You've got it backwards, love is great. It's the lack of love that 'sux'. Give yourself some time to grieve. And when you're ready, move on. (been there, done that) Good luck. -Todd

10-28-2001, 11:14 AM	#13
mrok12 Mayor Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Van Buren, MI Posts: 1,052	Thats a crap line, be bitter youv'e earned the right. Remember though that there are plenty of fish in the sea. MROK12

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